The Myth of Self esteem

Examining the thinking of great religious teachers, philosophers, and psychologists, the founder of one of the world's most successful forms of therapy teaches readers how to accept themselves--and others--unconditionally.

Author: Albert Ellis


ISBN: UOM:39015062603751

Category: Psychology

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Examining the thinking of great religious teachers, philosophers, and psychologists, the founder of one of the world's most successful forms of therapy teaches readers how to accept themselves--and others--unconditionally.
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Handbook of Positive Psychology

The myth of self-esteem: Finding happiness and solving problems in America. New York: St. Martin's. *Hochschild, A. R. (1979). Emotion work, feeling rules, and social structure. American Sociological Review, 85, 551–575.

Author: C. R. Snyder

Publisher: Oxford University Press

ISBN: 9780198030942

Category: Psychology

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Psychology has long been enamored of the dark side of human existence, rarely exploring a more positive view of the mind. What has psychology contributed, for example, to our understanding of the various human virtues? Regrettably, not much. The last decade, however, has witnessed a growing movement to abandon the exclusive focus on the negative. Psychologists from several subdisciplines are now asking an intriguing question: "What strengths does a person employ to deal effectively with life?" The Handbook of Positive Psychology provides a forum for a more positive view of the human condition. In its pages, readers are treated to an analysis of what the foremost experts believe to be the fundamental strengths of humankind. Both seasoned professionals and students just entering the field are eager to grasp the power and vitality of the human spirit as it faces a multitude of life challenges. The Handbook is the first systematic attempt to bring together leading scholars to give voice to the emerging field of positive psychology.
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The Myth of the Spoiled Child

publications or programs dedicated to supporting self-esteem, though—it was the critical backlash that had sprung up. No sooner did educators express an interest in trying to help kids feel better about themselves than the attacks began ...

Author: Alfie Kohn

Publisher: Hachette UK

ISBN: 9780738217253

Category: Family & Relationships

Page: 288

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Somehow, a set of deeply conservative assumptions about children -- what they're like and how they should be raised -- have congealed into the conventional wisdom in our society. Parents are accused of being both permissive and overprotective, unwilling to set limits and afraid to let their kids fail. Young people, meanwhile, are routinely described as entitled and narcissistic . . . among other unflattering adjectives. In The Myth of the Spoiled Child, Alfie Kohn systematically debunks these beliefs -- not only challenging erroneous factual claims but also exposing the troubling ideology that underlies them. Complaints about pushover parents and coddled kids are hardly new, he shows, and there is no evidence that either phenomenon is especially widespread today -- let alone more common than in previous generations. Moreover, new research reveals that helicopter parenting is quite rare and, surprisingly, may do more good than harm when it does occur. The major threat to healthy child development, John argues, is posed by parenting that is too controlling rather than too indulgent. With the same lively, contrarian style that marked his influential books about rewards, competition, and education, Kohn relies on a vast collection of social science data, as well as on logic and humor, to challenge assertions that appear with numbing regularity in the popular press. These include claims that young people suffer from inflated self-esteem; that they receive trophies, praise, and As too easily; and that they would benefit from more self-discipline and "grit." These conservative beliefs are often accepted without question, even by people who are politically liberal. Kohn's invitation to reexamine our assumptions is particularly timely, then; his book has the potential to change our culture's conversation about kids and the people who raise them.
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Self Esteem Issues and Answers

Relation of threatened egotismto violence and aggression: The dark sideofhigh selfesteem. ... In R. F.Baumeister (Ed.), Selfesteem: The puzzleof low selfregard(pp. 55–85). ... House ofcards: Psychology and psychotherapy builton myth.

Author: Michael H. Kernis

Publisher: Psychology Press

ISBN: 9781134952779

Category: Psychology

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Research and theory on self-esteem have flourished in recent years. This resurgence has produced multiple perpectives on fundamental issues surrounding the nature of self-esteem and its role in psychological functioning and interpersonal processes. Self-Esteem Issues and Answers brings together these various perspectives in a unique format. The book is divided into five sections. Section I focuses on core issues pertaining to the conceptualization and assesment of self-esteem, and when self-esteem is optimal. Section II concentrates on the determinants, development, and modifiability of self-esteem. Section III examines the evolutionary significance of self-esteem and its role in psychological processes and therapeutic settings. Section IV explores the social, relational, and cultural significance of self-esteem. Finally, Section V considers future directions for self-esteem researchers, practitioners, parents and teachers. This volume offers a wealth of perspectives from prominent researchers from different areas of psychology. Each expert contributor was asked to focus his or her chapter on a central self-esteem issue. Three or four experts addressed each question. The result is that Self-Esteem Issues and Answers provides a comprehensive sourcebook of current perspectives on a wide range of central self-esteem issues.
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Building Self esteem

The books listed below in alphabetical order provide useful information about possible approaches to selfesteem. ... 2001) Ten Days to SelfEsteem by David D. Burns (Harper, 1993) The Myth of SelfEsteem: How Rational Emotive Behavior ...

Author: David Bonham-Carter

Publisher: Icon Books

ISBN: 9781848319615

Category: Self-Help

Page: 240

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Building Self-Esteem brings you easy-to-follow techniques for improving your self-image, so you can achieve a realistic and positive view of yourself and live a happier and more successful life. A positive self-image can help you to improve your relationships and focus on what matters to you, whether that’s dealing with feelings of inadequacy, exploring your creativity, or improving physical fitness. Based on psychological assessments and practical journaling exercises, Building Self-Esteem enables you to uncover your needs, preferences and concerns, and to move away from whatever is holding you back.
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Challenging the Cult of Self Esteem in Education

As recently as 2005, Albert Ellis tried to clearly define selfesteem in his book The Myth of Self-Esteem, where he offered the following description: You rate yourself, your being, your personality, your essence, your totality, ...

Author: Kenzo E. Bergeron

Publisher: Routledge

ISBN: 9781351790765

Category: Education

Page: 126

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In this book, Bergeron demonstrates the negative emotional and pedagogical repercussions that result from American educators’ embrace of self-esteem and the dogma surrounding its acceptance. Critically interpreting the meaning of self-esteem in education, he challenges "common sense" assumptions surrounding this notion and questions the historical, political, philosophical, and pedagogical forces that have shaped this psychological construct in education. Interrogating the pedagogical practices linked to student empowerment, self-determination, and social agency in the classroom, Bergeron discusses the ways in which the promise of self-esteem has backfired, particularly for marginalized and impoverished students.
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The Self Esteem Trap

Raising Confident and Compassionate Kids in an Age of Self-Importance Polly Young-Eisendrath ... 2006); John Hewitt,The Myth of SelfEsteem: Finding Happiness and Solving Problems in America (New York:St. Martin's,1998); Dan Kindlon, ...

Author: Polly Young-Eisendrath

Publisher: Hachette UK

ISBN: 9780316039833

Category: Family & Relationships

Page: 300

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Kids today are depressed and anxious. They also seem to feel entitled to every advantage and unwilling to make the leap into adulthood. As Polly Young-Eisendrath makes clear in this brilliant account of where a generation has gone astray, parents trying to make their children feel special are unwittingly interfering with their kids' ability to accept themselves and cope with life. Clarifying an enormous cultural change, The Self-Esteem Trap shows why so many young people have trouble with empathy and compassion, struggle with moral values, and are stymied in the face of adversity. Young-Eisendrath offers prescriptive advice on how adults can help kids -- through the teen and young adult years -- develop self-worth, setting them on the right track to productive, balanced, and happy lives.
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Reinventing Justice

Recent studies not only reveal that self-esteem isn't positively correlated with healthy social behavior (see, ... For discussions about the specific link between self-esteem and drug use, see Hewitt, The Myth of Self-Esteem, 6–7; ...

Author: James L. Nolan Jr.

Publisher: Princeton University Press

ISBN: 9781400824762

Category: Social Science

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Drug courts offer radically new ways to deal with the legal and social problems presented by repeat drug offenders, often dismissing criminal charges as an incentive for participation in therapeutic programs. Since the first drug court opened in 1989 in Florida, close to 600 have been established throughout the United States. Although some observers have questioned their efficacy, no one until now has constructed an overall picture of the drug court phenomenon and its place in an American history of the social control of drugs. Here James Nolan examines not only how therapeutic strategies deviate from traditional judiciary proceedings, but also how these differences reflect changes afoot in American culture and conceptions of justice. Nolan draws upon extensive fieldwork to analyze a new type of courtroom drama in which the judge engages directly and regularly with the defendant-turned-client, lawyers play a reduced and less adversarial role, and treatment providers exert unprecedented influence in determining judicially imposed sanctions. The author considers the intended as well as unexpected consequences of therapeutic jurisprudence: for example, behavior undergoes a pathological reinterpretation, guilt is discredited, and the client's life story and ability to convince the judge of his or her willingness to change take on a new importance. Nolan finds that, fueled in part by the strength of therapeutic sensibilities in American culture, the drug court movement continues to expand and advances with it new understandings of the meaning and practice of justice.
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Pathways to Lasting Self Esteem

Overcoming Low SelfEsteem. NY: NYU Press. Firestone, R.W. (1990). Compassionate Child Rearing: An ... The Myth of Self-Esteem. NY: St Martin's Press. Hillman, C. (1992). Recovery of Your Self-Esteem: A Guide for 218 Stanley J.Gross, Ed. D.

Author: Stanley J.Gross

Publisher: AuthorHouse

ISBN: 1418470244

Category: Self-Help

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Pathways to Lasting Self-Esteem is based on the authors experience as a psychotherapist with his low self-esteem clients. Dr. Gross recognizes the tenacity of low self-esteem, yet he affirms that much can be done to raise it. In Pathways to Lasting Self-Esteem he distinguishes his unique approach to raising self-esteem from the many superficial manipulations commonly ineffective in making a durable impact. The book follows a stepwise method that provides practical guidance in a skill-oriented route for the journey. Pathways to Self-Esteem recognizes four levels for the development of self-esteem each featuring distinct dilemmas, goals, tasks, and skills. Readers will find the challenge to change buffered by hope to counter despair and safe options to offset fear.
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Generation Me

53 Journal articles on self-esteem: Hewitt, John. 1998. The Myth of Self-Esteem. New York: St. Martin's Press; p. 51. 53 One children's book: Loomans, Diane. 1991. The Lovablesin the Kingdom of Self-Esteem. New York: H. J. Kramer.

Author: Jean M. Twenge

Publisher: Simon and Schuster

ISBN: 9780743276986

Category: Social Science

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Draws on more than a decade of research to identify the challenges being faced by today's young adults, offering insight into how unprecedented levels of competitiveness, economic imbalances, and changes in sexual dynamics are resulting in higher incidences of life dissatisfaction and psychological turmoil. Reprint. 35,000 first printing.
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